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I don't know what to say. I disagree with you. I am never going to agree with you. I still like you. I don't think you're "oversensitive", but I don't agree with you that those things mean what you think they mean in that context and I don't see the point of continuing to discuss this matter because it just makes both of us angrier.
Are you seriously comparing this to the ice cream scoop issue? I thought it was creepy, you didn't. Of course you don't criticise me for thinking that it's creepy. You don't think it's a moral issue. You accept that I'm watching from a different place and move on. You can't seem to do that with this.
I don't think you're a terrible person because you like cheesy shit. But I do sometimes get the feeling you think there's something wrong with me because I don't agree with you about Dean, because you keep pushing me about it instead of just accepting that I don't agree with you. I mean, I really don't sit around thinking, "how can I get her to stop liking cheesy shit, how can I improve her tastes?"
I don't want you to feel uncomfortable for being upset about things. I just want you to stop demanding that I feel the same way. Upon occasion I have agreed with you that certain wording was unfortunate, but I still like the character.
Also? The conversations would go easier if we didn't have to have them at full length when I'm actually trying to watch the show. Do you realise you actually tried to read someone else's spoilery LJ entry out loud to us before the show was even over and NOT during a commercial break?
I feel like I can't sit down and just enjoy SPN any more because I don't have to wait to get the political analysis from my flist, I'm going to get it before the show is even over. I like to actually be immersed in the world of a show while I'm watching it. I don't want to be yanked out to deal with the big issues until it's actually over. If I'm willing to make fun of the show or talk about it while it's still on (like during facers or that next to last episode) that's a sign that I'm not actually into it, either because I don't think it's good or because I haven't been allowed to get into it.
Are you seriously comparing this to the ice cream scoop issue? I thought it was creepy, you didn't. Of course you don't criticise me for thinking that it's creepy. You don't think it's a moral issue. You accept that I'm watching from a different place and move on. You can't seem to do that with this.
I don't think you're a terrible person because you like cheesy shit. But I do sometimes get the feeling you think there's something wrong with me because I don't agree with you about Dean, because you keep pushing me about it instead of just accepting that I don't agree with you. I mean, I really don't sit around thinking, "how can I get her to stop liking cheesy shit, how can I improve her tastes?"
I don't want you to feel uncomfortable for being upset about things. I just want you to stop demanding that I feel the same way. Upon occasion I have agreed with you that certain wording was unfortunate, but I still like the character.
Also? The conversations would go easier if we didn't have to have them at full length when I'm actually trying to watch the show. Do you realise you actually tried to read someone else's spoilery LJ entry out loud to us before the show was even over and NOT during a commercial break?
I feel like I can't sit down and just enjoy SPN any more because I don't have to wait to get the political analysis from my flist, I'm going to get it before the show is even over. I like to actually be immersed in the world of a show while I'm watching it. I don't want to be yanked out to deal with the big issues until it's actually over. If I'm willing to make fun of the show or talk about it while it's still on (like during facers or that next to last episode) that's a sign that I'm not actually into it, either because I don't think it's good or because I haven't been allowed to get into it.